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  1. says:

    Omg why I did read this? No seriously why? I guess I wanted to read something ueer that wasn’t explicitly mm except I forgot that when straight people I think this author is straight—sorry for assumingjudging regardless write litfic about teh gays THEY LIKE TO MAKE US AS MISERABLE AS POSSIBLE And while I have some patience for marginalised people writing tragedy for themselves for the sake of having a voice and finding catharsisI have exactly none of non marginalised people diddling themselves gleefully over the fact that marginalised people have shitty livesAnyway what’s especially annoying about this book is that in many ways it is uite good Except for the fact it’s awful It’s set in 1950s Brighton and evokes the period and the place really well The writing is engaging and at times deeply compassionate especially some of the seuences from Patrick’s diary The story is as I have indicated ueer tragedy by numbers The ‘my policeman’ of the title is Tom a policeman who falls in love with a gay museum curator but still marries a womanz who is also in love with him There’s this slightly awkward framing device in which part of the book is written from the perspective of Marion late in their lives scribbling a confession to her husband about the events that took place earlier in their marriage And the gaps are filled in by Patrick’s diary written at the time and later used as evidence in his trial for acts of gross indecency Tom has no voice of his own at all existing only in the eyes of his two lovers which is both fitting and annoying Fitting because his silence is kind of A THEME and annoying because it means as a reader there’s no way to access what these two people find so worth ruining their lives over in himI mean probably that’s point You can’t precisely point at what in a person creates love and maintains it—love is always alien from the outside oh y’see ANOTHER THEME But hey I’m a romance reader At least have a go And defensibly I’m not a big fan of devices for the sake of devices Thematicappropriate is not enough if it’s also emotionally disengaging So say I anywayThere’s also this epic gap between the events and the frame The frame being the future where Tom and Marion have been married for forty years and presumably miserable and Patrick has apparently had some kind of stroke and Marion has insisted that she and Tom become his carer for he has NOBODY because the gays oh the gays the lonely lives we lead even though Tom won’t speak to him because of TEH TRAGEDEE and Marion was the woman who literally brought about said tragedy The events being the time the past where Marion got Patrick sent to prison for indecency on account of his banging being in love with her husband Which is sort of a difficult situation all round And obviously we’re meant to blame SOCIETY MAN SOCIETY because if not for SOCIETY MAN SOCIETY than Tom would have been able to be with Patrick openly so he wouldn’t have married a woman he didn’t love and nobody would have been sent to prison for gross indecency On principle I didn’t want to condemn Marion even though she does a terrible terrible thing and knows she did because Evil Woman Destroys Beautiful Gays is a cliché I despise almost as intensely as Gays Are For TragedyAnyway what’s really jarring is that Tragedy Happens and we last leave Patrick being horribly beaten up in prison for yep you guessed it being a gay And then we’re blah years in the future and Patrick has had a terrible stroke and Marion is consumed by guilt for what she did to him But what the fuck happened in between? I mean I realise it’s a book about an incident – the events leading directly up to it and the far reaching emotional conseuences And it couldn’t exactly detail The Fully Well Rounded And Satisfying Life Patrick Lived After Being Released From Prison Before Incidentally Having A Stroke because that would a be very long b outside the scope of the book and c destroy the deep terrible tragedy of the gaysBut it does sort of feel like one the tragedy has happened the author couldn’t be arsed any Except to swoop in and beat on a gay a bit I mean yes the man lost everything Let’s give him a stroke too Why notAnyway here is a bit of Patrick thinking about his relationship with his ex lover Michael And nicely indicates why this book infuriated me to the degree it did because it’s uietly beautiful and very sad and sort of indicates that you can discuss this stuff without a drama klaxonWe used to dance Michael and I Every Wednesday night I’d make everything right Fire laid Dinner made he loved anything with cream and butter All those French sauces – sole au vin blanc poulet au gratin à la crème landaise – and to finish if I’d had time Saint Émilion au chocolat A bottle of claret The sheets fresh and clean a towel laid out A newly pressed suit And music All the sentimental magic that he loved Caruso to start I’ve always hated him but for Michael I endured it Then Sarah Vaughan singing ‘The Nearness of You’ We’d cling to each other for hours shuffle round on the rug like a couple of marrieds his cheek burning against mine Wednesdays were an indulgence I know that For him and for me I made him his favourite butter rich foods which played havoc with my stomach hummed along to ‘Danny Boy’ and in return he danced in my arms Only when the records were all played the candles burned down to pools of wax would I slowly undress him here in my sitting room and we’d dance again naked in absolute silence save for our uickening breathsPS – Michael is blackmailed for his gayness and kills himselfThis review brought to you by GR's insistence that I read 12 books this year in a public way


  2. says:

    I was both fascinated and immensely annoyed by this book The blurb describes it as a tragic love story of a man and a woman both in love with the same man in a time the 1950s when it is safer for him to marry the woman and maintain a front of respectability As a longtime reader of LGBT fiction it sounded like exactly the sort of book I would loveI didn't In the spirit of fairness I should list its good points 1950s Brighton is beautifully vivid and the prevailing attitudes of the time are well captured Patrick and his mother are wonderful characters Julia a relatively minor character yet an important one is great and the relationship between Tom and Patrick feels era appropriately dangerousHowever Marion the main protagonist is an out and out bitch I don't use that word lightly but honestly I don't think I've hated a female character this much since Mary Anne in the Tales of the City series I think we're supposed to empathise with her plight she's young and unworldly living in a time when homosexuality just wasn't talked about so when she announces that she's in love with Tom and is warned by his sister no less that he's 'not like that' she's naively or willfully unaware of what that meansI wanted to punch her then and I didn't shift much on that opinion throughout the rest of the book If anything my loathing deepened as it became clear exactly what she'd done to dispose of her opposition She loses a good fried Julia in her refusal to accept her husband's 'perversions' loses her husband his career and destroys Patrick's life And all so she can 'win' Tom a plot which thankfully backfires spectacularly leading to a loveless sexless forty year marriage What is never made clear is why Tom would choose to stay with this awful human being in later years when divorce and homosexuality both became socially acceptable Another big failing from my perspective is that Marion's point of view is so dominant there isn't room for Tom to speak for himselfThe ending is heartbreaking Marion finally does the right thing and tells Tom and the ailing Patrick what she did and true to form disappears to leave them to deal with it I was so angry with her by this point that I didn't even care that the ending was a bit cliched and unnecessarily dramaticIn short this isn't a gay romance nor an exploration of the difficulties of maintaining a public face and an illegal private love It's a straight woman's vision of those things written for other straight women and as I don't fall into that category I found it incredibly insulting and annoying In the hands of a different writer I believe it could have been far sensitively handled and Marion could have even become less loathsome As it is for all its good points it remains horrible


  3. says:

    This is well written and certainly captures the feeling of living in a time and place when homosexuality was illegal and when anyone who didn't avoid any connection with it was liable to pay a heavy price As a story it'sfine It's a perfectly good book But I felt that there was always something there just out of reach something a little deeper a little hard hitting something that could grab the reader if only it was said And that something never really showed up Not chick lit because well chick lit doesn't usually hit this kind of subject matter But it does feel a little like chick lit which isn't necessarily a bad thing because every genre has its place But I wanted something


  4. says:

    Since Marion was a girl she has been besotted by her friend Sylvie's older brother Tom She dreams of their being together and tries to scheme her way into seeing him any which way she can As they grow older Tom goes into the military and then becomes a policeman He is a good swimmer and gives Marion swimming lessons Though Marion feels so strongly about Tom and he must know it he is slow to make any sort of advances Sylvie tries to warn Marion about Tom alluding to the fact that he is different from most men Marion is not sure what Sylvie means and in any case ignores her warning She is too smitten with Tom to listen to any advice that might lead her away from himTom has a friend named Patrick who is a museum curator He attended Oxford and is uite educated and wealthy He like Marion is in love with Tom and tries to show Tom the beauty of the arts paintings operas sculpture and music Gradually they consummate their love and Marion initially does not know about Patrick Tom feels unclean as the time is 1957 in Britain when homosexual liaisons are against the law and he asks Marion to marry him so that he might feel normal about himself She agrees and they marry uicklyThe book opens up in 1999 with Patrick uite ill and under Marion and Tom's roof Marion has taken Patrick in after he has had two strokes and she is trying to nurse him back to health Marion has written her account of the story of their three way love and she plans to read it to Patrick so as to help him heal The doctor says that talking to him will help Patrick also has been journaling most of his life up to his strokes and the reader is privy to both Marion's and Patrick's journals in alternating parts of the novel The novel goes back and forth from the present 1999 back to 1957 when Patrick meets TomBoth Marion and Patrick refer to Tom as 'My Policeman' and they vie for his love This novel beautifully shows the reader the tragedies that ensue with this three way love and engages the reader from the start This is a sad book and a stirring one filled with repressed emotion love and rage It is heartbreaking and is a reflection of the times in 1957 Britain homosexuals were called 'inverts' or 'perverts' Though the novel reflects the what is occurring in 1999 as well most of the action takes place in the earlier part of the century when love between two adults of the same sex is punishable by imprisonment


  5. says:

    beautifully written and incredibly sad set in the 1950s when homosexuality was still illegal in great britain a woman and man recount their lives being in love with the same man i found myself wonderinggrowing increasingly frustrated with certain elements of the story such as view spoilerWHY did marion and tom stay together for fourty years? i can understand the reasons at the time but what kind of existence is that? it just felt like their whole lives had been a big waste hide spoiler


  6. says:

    I think it was George Bernard Shaw who coined the maxim He who can does He who cannot teaches While there may sometimes be some truth in those words they most certainly do not apply to the writer of this very good novel Bethan Roberts Roberts has apparently taught Creative Writing at Chichester University and at Goldsmiths College both of which are in the UK On the evidence of this her most recent book she is an exceptionally talented writer My Policeman is a beautifully told and moving account of thwarted passionThe essence of the story is a somewhat unusual menage a trois The setting is Brighton the time is the late 1950s Marion is an intelligent but rather naive young schoolteacher She falls in love with Tom who is the brother of her best friend Tom is an inexperienced police officer He meets and becomes infatuated with Patrick who is the curator of Western Art at the town's art gallery Despite his feelings for Patrick Tom marries Marion At a time before gay sex had been decriminalised he is keen to fit in and to live outwardly at least a life of respectability and what he thinks of as normality In a seuence of narratives that shifts in time from the late 1950s to the late 1990s My Policeman recounts from Marion's and from Patrick's perspective their shared love for Tom and the impact that it has on all their lives It is a poignant painful and ultimately tragic story The writing and characterisation are excellent Roberts paints what appears to be a very authentic picture of the social and sexual ethos of the time and of the way in which gay people were forced to contend with being labelled as sexual inverts and ueers terms used in the story and with the risk of exposure for behaving in what was then a criminal manner Her style of writing is crisp and flowing And she depicts what are sometimes very intense and emotional events in a humane and sympathetic way My Policeman is a tender heartbreaking and thought provoking story that will stay with the reader for a very long time after he or she has finished it It is a very good novel indeed marred only by the slightly overdone conclusion 910


  7. says:

    A really good story which moves back and forth between 1999 and 195758 Schoolgirl Marion has a crush on her friend's brother Tom in 1950's Brighton Having left school she finds herself spending time with him and determines to marry him Unknown to her at the time Tom is having an affair with an older man Patrick In 1999 Patrick has had a stroke and has been taken into the home that Marion and Tom live in Marion is caring for him but also writing her 'confession' about what happened subseuently to after she met Patrick back in 1957 In between Marion's sections of narrative are excerpts from Patrick's diaryThere are two aspects of this book that made me really enjoy it Firstly I think that novels with a dare I say it historical perspective on gay lives are such an important part of what still needs to be written; lives that were hidden and describing why they were hidden could easily be left unsaid in an era of Pulitzer Prize winning gay comic novels Also there is the aspect of the wives who were married to gay men and husbands of gay women who would have gone through their entire lives in a relationship that did not work Marion's choices in the book are completely understandable but everything she does is based on the problems created by people not talking about their sexuality and the fact that being gay was still very much illegal at the beginning of the book Parts of the story reminded me of Ian McEwan's 'On Chesil Beach' same period and similar issues of naivety in young adults Having lived in Brighton for a while a lot of the setting was very familiar to me although generally I am not a fan of a lot of local detailThe writing itself is absorbing and the switch between narratives gives an added tension especially given that after the stroke Patrick has lost the ability to speak adding to the separation of the two main characters who are now spending so much time together Considering where the story was heading there is also a good ending It should have been a uicker read but work kept getting in the way this week


  8. says:

    One of those books like The Poisonwood Bible which inhabits your field of vision while you're reading it Walking around Brighton this past week I half expected to see the characters slip out of the museum or stroll arms swinging through the arch at ueen's Park Roberts crafts a story from the desires and fears of the three main characters as they try to negotiate the social strata of the south coast in the 1950s Starting and fiinishing in present day Peacehaven the characters long for past pain in preference to the desiccated routines of their later lives The threads of the characters' lives tangle as the meet weave together as the reach a temporary accommodation of their conflicting desires and finally unravel completely leaving them paralysed in misery like the beautiful boys in Patrick's galleriesDeception delusion the impetus to protect and the need to make reparations all drive the characters towards the cliff edge of Peacehaven and infatuation loyalty love keep them there If you've had the breath kicked hard from your lungs by the sight of someone suddenly turning a corner in front of you and bartered everything you hold close just for a shot at happiness with that person then this is one for you


  9. says:

    Sad sad sad Such a beautifully written book one that really got inside the hearts and minds of the 3 main characters Fabulously set in late 1950s and present day Brighton this book was totally compelling and very telling about how difficult it was being gay or indeed a woman in those times I was struck by the sadness of each of the characters in this book and the way most people in the story both primary and minor characters had such empty and wasted lives Ms Roberts' descriptions of lives led without much meaning cut deep This was a story that will linger with me for uite a while It calls to mind the Thoreau uote the mass of men lead lives of uiet desperation My Policeman is highly recommended and I also think it would make a great movie


  10. says:

    I can't even begin to describe how distressing reading this book was semi spoilerThere were no happy bits and from the get go I knew how much of a btch Marion was going to be I felt for her in the beginning and her feelings were valid but not valid enough to destroy someone's life like that for a person that didn't even want her as bad as she did them There was something about her character that was so discouraging and everything she said just irritated me I felt nothing for Tom but felt everything for Patrick He was the only character I actually tolerated Nonetheless this book gave an engrossing view of how lives were destroyed because of bigotry and ignorance


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Review Ê eBook, PDF or Kindle ePUB ´ Bethan Roberts

E another eually overpowering claim on his affections Patrick a curator at the Brighton Museum is also besotted with his policeman and opens Tom's eyes to a world previously unknown to him But in an age when those of 'minority status' were condemned by society and the law it is safer for this policeman to marry his teacher The two lovers must share him until one of them breaks and three lives are destroyed Unfolding through the d I think it was George Bernard Shaw who coined the maxim He who can does He who cannot teaches While there may sometimes be some truth in those words they most certainly do not apply to the writer of this very good novel Bethan Roberts Roberts has apparently taught Creative Writing at Chichester University and at Goldsmiths College both of which are in the UK On the evidence of this her most recent book she is an exceptionally talented writer My Policeman is a beautifully told and moving account of thwarted passionThe essence of the story is a somewhat unusual menage a trois The setting is Brighton the time is the late 1950s Marion is an intelligent but rather naive young schoolteacher She falls in love with Tom who is the brother of her best friend Tom is an inexperienced police officer He meets and becomes infatuated with Patrick who is the curator of Western Art at the town's art gallery Despite his feelings for Patrick Tom marries Marion At a time before gay sex had been decriminalised he is keen to fit in and to live outwardly at least a life of respectability and what he thinks of as normality In a seuence of narratives that shifts in time from the late 1950s to the late 1990s My Policeman recounts from Marion's and from Patrick's perspective their shared love for Tom and the impact that it has on all their lives It is a poignant painful and ultimately tragic story The writing and characterisation are excellent Roberts paints what appears to be a very authentic picture of the social and sexual ethos of the time and of the way in which gay people were forced to contend with being labelled as sexual inverts and ueers terms used in the story and with the risk of exposure for behaving in what was then a criminal manner Her style of writing is crisp and flowing And she depicts what are sometimes very intense and emotional events in a humane and sympathetic way My Policeman is a tender heartbreaking and thought provoking story that will stay with the reader for a very long time after he or she has finished it It is a very good novel indeed marred only by the slightly overdone conclusion 910 The Mammoth Book of Scottish Romance is also besotted with his policeman and opens Tom's eyes to a world previously unknown to him But Prayer For Little Things in an age when those of 'minority status' were condemned by society and the law A Treatise on Time and Space it The White Lantern is safer for this policeman to marry his teacher The two lovers must share him until one of them breaks and three lives are destroyed Unfolding through the d I think Kingsbane (Empirium, it was George Bernard Shaw who coined the maxim He who can does He who cannot teaches While there may sometimes be some truth Learning To Dance in those words they most certainly do not apply to the writer of this very good novel Bethan Roberts Roberts has apparently taught Creative Writing at Chichester University and at Goldsmiths College both of which are 901 FRANCE ROUTES AUTOROUTES 2019 FRANCE ROUTIERE MAXI FORMAT RECTO in the UK On the evidence of this her most recent book she ¡Dilly-ding, dilly-dong!: Leicester City, el triunfo más improbable de la historia del fútbol inglés is an exceptionally talented writer My Policeman La locura de saltar contigo is a beautifully told and moving account of thwarted passionThe essence of the story The Five Chinese Brothers is a somewhat unusual menage a trois The setting The Future Aint What It Used to Be is Brighton the time Roomies is the late 1950s Marion Adventures of Superman Vol. 3 is an Virgin Wanted intelligent but rather naive young schoolteacher She falls The Message Ministry Edition: The Bible in Contemporary Language in love with Tom who Lie With Me is the brother of her best friend Tom No Feelings Involved is an El libro de sinAzucar.org inexperienced police officer He meets and becomes One Wore Blue (Cameron Saga: Civil War Trilogy, infatuated with Patrick who Size Matters is the curator of Western Art at the town's art gallery Despite his feelings for Patrick Tom marries Marion At a time before gay sex had been decriminalised he ¡Oh, lorem ipsum! 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Ual narratives of Marion and Patrick both writing about the man at the centre of their lives this beautifully told painful tragic story is revealed It is a tale of wasted years misguided love and thwarted hope of how at a time when the country was on the verge of change so much was still impossible Bethan Roberts has produced an intense and exuisitely raw yet tender novel which proves her to be one of our most exciting young write A really good story which moves back and forth between 1999 and 195758 Schoolgirl Marion has a crush on her friend's brother Tom in 1950's Brighton Having left school she finds herself spending time with him and determines to marry him Unknown to her at the time Tom is having an affair with an older man Patrick In 1999 Patrick has had a stroke and has been taken into the home that Marion and Tom live in Marion is caring for him but also writing her 'confession' about what happened subseuently to after she met Patrick back in 1957 In between Marion's sections of narrative are excerpts from Patrick's diaryThere are two aspects of this book that made me really enjoy it Firstly I think that novels with a dare I say it historical perspective on gay lives are such an important part of what still needs to be written; lives that were hidden and describing why they were hidden could easily be left unsaid in an era of Pulitzer Prize winning gay comic novels Also there is the aspect of the wives who were married to gay men and husbands of gay women who would have gone through their entire lives in a relationship that did not work Marion's choices in the book are completely understandable but everything she does is based on the problems created by people not talking about their sexuality and the fact that being gay was still very much illegal at the beginning of the book Parts of the story reminded me of Ian McEwan's 'On Chesil Beach' same period and similar issues of naivety in young adults Having lived in Brighton for a while a lot of the setting was very familiar to me although generally I am not a fan of a lot of local detailThe writing itself is absorbing and the switch between narratives gives an added tension especially given that after the stroke Patrick has lost the ability to speak adding to the separation of the two main characters who are now spending so much time together Considering where the story was heading there is also a good ending It should have been a uicker read but work kept getting in the way this week Pasos perdidos en Granada is revealed It Suffering and no suffering is a tale of wasted years misguided love and thwarted hope of how at a time when the country was on the verge of change so much was still Can We Live 150 Years? 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Review Ê eBook, PDF or Kindle ePUB ´ Bethan Roberts

An exuisitely told tragic tale of thwarted love From the moment Marion first lays eyes on Tom her best friend's big brother broad blond blue eyed she is smitten And when he comes home from National Service to be a policeman Marion a newly ualified teacher is determined to win him Unable to acknowledge the signs that something is amiss she plunges into marriage sure that her love is enough for both of them But Tom has another lif I was both fascinated and immensely annoyed by this book The blurb describes it as a tragic love story of a man and a woman both in love with the same man in a time the 1950s when it is safer for him to marry the woman and maintain a front of respectability As a longtime reader of LGBT fiction it sounded like exactly the sort of book I would loveI didn't In the spirit of fairness I should list its good points 1950s Brighton is beautifully vivid and the prevailing attitudes of the time are well captured Patrick and his mother are wonderful characters Julia a relatively minor character yet an important one is great and the relationship between Tom and Patrick feels era appropriately dangerousHowever Marion the main protagonist is an out and out bitch I don't use that word lightly but honestly I don't think I've hated a female character this much since Mary Anne in the Tales of the City series I think we're supposed to empathise with her plight she's young and unworldly living in a time when homosexuality just wasn't talked about so when she announces that she's in love with Tom and is warned by his sister no less that he's 'not like that' she's naively or willfully unaware of what that meansI wanted to punch her then and I didn't shift much on that opinion throughout the rest of the book If anything my loathing deepened as it became clear exactly what she'd done to dispose of her opposition She loses a good fried Julia in her refusal to accept her husband's 'perversions' loses her husband his career and destroys Patrick's life And all so she can 'win' Tom a plot which thankfully backfires spectacularly leading to a loveless sexless forty year marriage What is never made clear is why Tom would choose to stay with this awful human being in later years when divorce and homosexuality both became socially acceptable Another big failing from my perspective is that Marion's point of view is so dominant there isn't room for Tom to speak for himselfThe ending is heartbreaking Marion finally does the right thing and tells Tom and the ailing Patrick what she did and true to form disappears to leave them to deal with it I was so angry with her by this point that I didn't even care that the ending was a bit cliched and unnecessarily dramaticIn short this isn't a gay romance nor an exploration of the difficulties of maintaining a public face and an illegal private love It's a straight woman's vision of those things written for other straight women and as I don't fall into that category I found it incredibly insulting and annoying In the hands of a different writer I believe it could have been far sensitively handled and Marion could have even become less loathsome As it is for all its good points it remains horrible